Start Dating several guys once

Dating several guys once

My friend P (and no, her real name is not just a letter but if you're friends with P, then you're friends with me) put it best.

Our male soul mates will not be the same as us; we are not looking for our twin.

Men are coming from a completely different place and traveling in a whole different mode of transportation.

Be in the Moment Think of dating less as an iterative process for finding someone perfect and more like a series of potentially enjoyable evenings with beautiful strangers.

For a large stripe of people, especially in cities, dating one person at a time is uncommon, if not completely fictional.

Both going on dates and shopping on the busiest day of the year require focus, persistence, a competitive edge and a will to win.

The more special the prize, the harder you must work and the more avenues you must be willing to explore.

When you realize one of these guys is THE ONE -- then you should give it your all. The good news is that men do need commitment (at some point in their lives) just as much as women do – but they want it packaged differently.

When people write to me asking if they ever will find their “soul mates”, I tell them that they have to change their thinking processes.

But even if I'm seeing 40 women, at any given moment, I'm with only one of them.

And if you find yourself thinking about one person you're seeing even when you're with the others, well, that's a good problem to have.

My friend P (and no, her real name is not just a letter but if you're friends with P, then you're friends with me) put it best.